A mature guy could easily step right in to pick the fruit but women of this age are either dying to move out of their parent’s house or just recently did. They want to prove to everyone that they can handle themselves in life, money, and school and certainly with men. They have been governed up until now and various times the flood gates are about to crack. Never treat her like a small girl - in fact treat these girls as if you are on a date every time you see them. When you are on a date the first thing you do is ask your date is questions about her individual life. When she tells you what is going on, you have chance to say you should be proud of your self.

So even if you only visit your coffee shop for a couple of minutes a day - everyday ask that hot little peach about, school, work, family, drama, sports, but never about guys! Others may hear your conversation as well so be aware of that and the next time you to see her; you can make direct statements about her life that interests females. Focus on her and she will focus on you. Every time you see her talk about her, treat her like an adult not a young girl, and never bring up guys. If she does work at a service-oriented establishment such as a coffee house - make certain you tip. Even if you just tip on her shift, make sure she sees you tip. So far you are possibly wondering how this is all about you. The reason it is about you is because you will getting the one thing you want from her in return for your repeat business, generous nature and tips - her company.

After you have refined her at work or wherever then you need to take the next step by making a suggestion. And it’s like asking for a date without asking and can help you avoid a flat out no. Suggest that you two meet for coffee sometime or a drink or lunch exactly it is that simple. You just say, we should go for a coffee sometime when you are not working. She will give you a reply that will suggest one way or the other. If she seems in favor of the idea then instantaneously suggest this week. When she seems in favor of this you say well, when do you want to go? Again, the reason you handle the first half with such detail and the close with tender gloves is because eventually the decision will be hers and the more you make her feel she is deciding than you control the situation, and the closer she will come. Patience is a virtue and it’s only a virtue to ones not doing the waiting. You have to do your groundwork early and pay attention to the signs. You want to pick the ones who want freedom and are uninhibited to explore with you but keep away from the virgins – you’ll never get rid of them.

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